LOVE. LIVE. LIFE. PROCEED. PROGRESS

YE

2011-06-09T17:50:00.000-04:00

KANYE LOOKED AWESOME AT The 2011 CFDA Fashion Awards

BREEEEEEEEEEEZY

2011-03-08T08:57:00.001-05:00

NEW CHRIS BROWN PROMO PICS. HIS IS SET TO RELEASE HIS NEW ALBUM TITLED F.A.M.E MARCH 22ND

SHE MUST LOVE THE CELTICS = ) !

2011-03-08T08:34:00.002-05:00

AUBREY O'DAY TOOK THESE PICS FOR SLAM MAGAZINE LAST MONTH.

HER NEW SHOW COMES ON MONDAYS AT 10PM

ADELE HAS ANNOUNCED HER US TOUR...

2011-02-08T10:24:00.002-05:00

I LOVE LOVE ADELE AND SHE HAS ANNOUNCED DATES FOR HER US TOUR...

May 12 Washington, DC 9:30 Club
May 13 Philadelphia, PA Electric Factory
May 15 Boston, MA House of Blues
May 16 Montreal, QC Olympia Theater
May 18 Toronto, ON Kool Haus
May 19 New York, NY Beacon Theatre
May 23 Royal Oak, MI Royal Oak Music Theatre
May 24 Chicago, IL Riviera Theater
May 26 Minneapolis, MN First Avenue
May 28 Denver, CO Ogden Theatre
May 29 Salt Lake City, UT The Depot
May 31 Vancouver, BC Commodore Ballroom
June 1 Seattle, WA Showbox at the Market
June 3 Portland, OR Crystal Ballroom
June 4 San Francisco, CA The Warfield Theatre
June 8 San Diego, CA Humphreys Concerts by the Bay
June 9 Los Angeles, CA The Wiltern
June 12 Austin, TX Stubbs Waller Creek
June 15 Dallas, TX House of Blues
June 17 Atlanta, GA Tabernacle
June 18 Asheville, NC The Orange Peel
June 20 Nashville, TN Ryman Auditorium

ILL POST VIDS OF HER LATER IN THE DAY

WEEEEEZY IS GOIN ON TOUR!!!!!!!

2011-01-26T13:08:00.002-05:00

ACCORDING TO NECOLEBITCHIE.COM
LIL WAYNE JUS ANNOUNCED HE IS GOING ON TOUR...

BELOW ARE THE DATES

3/18/11 Buffalo, NY HSBC Arena
3/19/11 Columbus, OH <- NATIONWIDE ARENA
3/20/11 Baltimore, MD First Mariner Arena
3/23/11 Hampton, VA Hampton Coliseum
3/24/11 Cleveland, OH Quicken Loans Arena
3/26/11 Philadelphia, PA Wells Fargo Center
3/27/11 Long Island, NY Nassau Coliseum
3/30/11 University Park, PA Bryce Jordan Center
4/1/11 Chicago, IL United Center
4/2/11 Detroit, MI The Palace of Auburn Hills
4/3/11 Washington, D.C. Verizon Center
4/6/11 Miami, FL Bank Atlantic Center
4/8/11 Greensboro, NC Greensboro Coliseum
4/9/11 Atlanta, GA Philips Arena
4/10/11 St. Louis, MO Scottrade Center
4/14/11 New Orleans, LA, New Orleans Arena
4/15/11 Dallas, TX New Orleans Arena American Airlines Arena
4/16/11 Houston, TX Toyota Center
4/19/11 Phoenix, AZ US Airways Arena
4/23/11 Anaheim, CA Honda Center
4/24/11 Oakland, CA Oracle Arena
4/26/11 Sacramento, CA ARCO Arena
4/28/11 Edmonton, Canada Rexall Place
4/29/11 Vancouver, Canada Rogers Arena
*5/01/11 *East Rutherford, NJ *Bamboozle Festival @ Meadowlands Arena

WEEEZY 2.0

2011-01-18T08:53:00.000-05:00

THIS IS LIL WAYNES VERSE TO ROMANS REVENGE

I eat your face off
You n*ggas sweet as pie, like this is a bake off
I love Nicki’s curves, swing at the baseball
I beat your brakes off
Hi, I’m Tune, salt in the wound
I’m up in this b*tch, pardon the goons
Throw dirt on the floor and get caught in the broom
I like a big wet p*ssy with a fork and a spoon
I got money and the power
a woman in the shower
And she don’t want nothin but my johnson, Howard
Sour D’s and a swisher sweet, sweet and sour
You scared? Go to church, say your prayers, read a Bible
Huh, I don’t know what y’all on
Please, I go in like goin
Drink drink in my hand with the world in the other
The uzi go brrrr, stutter
Ha, life is a puzzle, jigsaw
All I do is win, my name should be Victor
Old ass rappers, I’m still the sh*t, old-ass Pampers
Rah, rah, like a dungeon dragon
Foie gras, I hear you ducks is quackin
I’m just pluckin my ashes, I’ma puff it and pass it
I’m a f*ckin assassin, you should jump in a casket

Read more: Bitchie Pod: Nicki Minaj ft Lil Wayne – Roman’s Revenge 2.0 | Necole Bitchie.com

OH WORD?

2011-01-17T13:16:00.001-05:00

THE RUMOR MILL IS CHURNING.. AND ITS LATEST STORY IS THAT COMMON GAVE SERENA AN ENGAGEMENT RING OVER THE HOLIDAY SEASON... MMM I THOUGHT THEY BROKE UP... ?? IDK BUT THEY MAKE A VERY SEXY COUPLE.. KUDOS TO THEM

TBC

2011-01-13T13:09:00.000-05:00

I HAVE SO MUCH MORE TO SHARE... BUT I THINK IM DONE FOR NOW.. STAY TUNED!!

TEAM BROWNSKIN

2011-01-13T12:31:00.003-05:00

EVERYONE KNOWS I SUPPORT TEAM BROWNSKIN FORVER.... AWHILE AGO KELLY ROWLAND DID A SHOOT WITH PHOTOGRAPHER ROB ECTOR.... HERE ARE A FEW OF THE FLICKS...

CONGRATS ARE IN ORDER!

2011-01-13T11:35:00.002-05:00

ACCORDING TO USMAG, TIA MOWRY IS ABOUT 3 MONTHS PREGNANT SHE IS DUE IN JULY.. & SHE HAS A NEW SHOW IN THE WORKS TO AIR ON THE STYLE NETWORK... KUDOS TO HER THIS IS AN EXCITING TIME IN HER LIFE!

PART 2?

2011-01-13T10:58:00.002-05:00

NELLY'S NEXT SINGLE FROM HIS LATEST ALBUM IS ENTITLED "GONE".. ITS ANOTHER DUET WITH KELLY ROWLAND... ONLY REASON ITS BLOG WORTHY IS BECAUSE THEY DESCRIBE IT AS DILEMMA PART 2... AND DELIMMA WAS THE BEST SONG EVER !!!!!! LOL

SMH...

2011-01-13T09:33:00.002-05:00

THIS IS WHY U DONT GIVE BLACK PEOPLE MONEY... REALLY DUDE.. U PUT AN ICE CREAM CONE ON UR FACE...

DONT ASK LOL

2011-01-12T09:21:00.004-05:00

FOR SOME REASON.. IM IN LOVE WITH THIS SONG..

(Nicki Minaj)

I am not Jasmine, I am Aladdin
So far ahead, these bums is laggin'
See me in that new thing, bums is gaggin'
I'm startin' to feel like a dungeon dragon
Raah, raah, like a dungeon dragon
I'm startin' to feel like a dungeon dragon
Look at my show footage, how these girls be spazzin'
So f*ck I look like gettin' back to a has-been?
Yeah, I said it, has-been
Hang it up, flatscreen
(Haha) Plasma
Hey Nicki, hey Nicki, asthma
I got the pumps, it ain't got medicine
I got bars, sentence'n
I'm a bad bitch, I'm a cunt
And I'll kick that hoe, punt
Forced trauma, blunt
You play the back, bitch, I'm in the front
You need a job, this ain't cuttin' it
Nicki Minaj is who you ain't fuckin' with
You li'l brag a lot, I beat you with a pad-a-lock
I am a movie, camera block
You outta work, I know it's tough
But enough is enough

Raah, raah, like a dungeon dragon
Raah, raah, raah, like a dungeon dragon
Raah, raah, raah, like a dungeon dragon
Like a dungeon dragon, like a dungeon dragon

Raah, raah, raah, like a dungeon dragon
Raah, raah, raah, like a dungeon dragon
Raah, raah, raah, like a dungeon dragon
Like a dungeon dragon, like a dungeon dragon

(Eminem)

I ain't into S&M, but my whip's off the chain
A little drop of candy paint drips off the frame
Twisted-ass mind, got a pretzel for a brain
An eraser for a head, fuckin' pencil for a frame
You don't like it then peel off, bitch
Every last woman on Earth I'll kill off, and I still wouldn't f*ck you, slut
So wipe the smile on your grill off, I swear to God I'll piss a Happy Meal off
Get the wheels turnin', spin, and wheel off
Snap the axel in half, bust the tie-rod
Quit hollerin' "Why, God?" He ain't got shit to do with it
Bygones'll never be bygones, so won't be finished swallowin' my wad
I ain't finished blowin' it, nice bra
Hope it'll fit a tough titty, bitch
Life's hard, I swear to God, life is a dumb blonde white broad
With fake tits and a bad dye job
Who just spit in my f*ckin' face and called me a f*ckin' tightwad
So finally I broke down and bought her an iPod
And caught her stealin' my music, so I tied her arms and legs to the bed
Set up the camera and pissed twice on her
Look, two pees and a tripod!
The moral to the story is, life's treatin' you like dry sod?
Kick it back in its face, my God
It's Shady and Nicki Minaj, you might find the sight quite odd
But don't ask why, bitch (Ask why not)

The wo-world is my punchin' bag and
If I'm garbage, you're a bunch of maggots
Make that face, go on, scrunch it up at me
Show me the target so I can lunge and attack it

Like a, raah, raah, like a dungeon dragon
You fell off, off, they musta bumped your wagon

You musta went off the back, I'm 'bout to go off the deep end
I told you to stay in your lane, you just jumped in traffic

(Nicki Minaj)

(I-I-I-I-Is) Is this the thanks that I get for puttin' you bitches on?
Is it my fault that all of you bitches gone?
Shoulda sent a thank-you note, you little ho
Now I'ma wrap your coffin with a bow
(Ni-ni-ni) "Nicki, she's just mad 'cause you took the spot"
Word, that bitch mad 'cause I took the spot?
Well, bitch, if you ain't shittin', then get off the pot
Got some niggas out in Brooklyn that'll off your top
I-I-I-I hear them mumblin', I hear the cacklin'
I got 'em scared, shook, panickin'
Overseas, church, Vatican
You at a stand, still, mannequin
You wanna sleep on me? Overnight?
I'm the motherfuckin' boss, overwrite
And when I pull up, vroom, motorbike
Now all my niggas gettin' buck, overbite
I see them dusty-ass Filas, Levi's
Raggedy-ass, hoes in your knee-highs
I call the play, now do you see why?
These bitches callin' me Manning, Eli
(Manning, Eli!) Ma, ma-ma-ma-ma, Manning, Eli
These bitches callin' me (Manning, Eli)

(Eminem)

A-a-a-a-all you li'l f*****s can suck it
No home, but I'ma stick it to 'em like refrigerator magnets
And I'm crooked enough to make straitjackets bend
Yeah, look who's back again, bitch, keep actin' as if
You have the same passion that I have
Yeah, right, still hungry, my ass
You assdicks had gastric bypass
Ain't hot enough to set fire to dry grass
And 'bout as violent as hair on eyelids (Eyelash!)
Go take a flyin' leap of faith off a f*ckin' balcony
'Fore I shove a falcon wing up your fly ass
You know what time it is, so why ask?
When Shady and Nicki's worlds class
It's (high class) meets (white trash)

Raah, raah, like a dungeon dragon
Raah, raah, raah, like a dungeon dragon
Raah, raah, raah, like a dungeon dragon
Like a dungeon dragon, like a dungeon dragon

Raah, raah, raah, like a dungeon dragon
Raah, raah, raah, like a dungeon dragon
Raah, raah, raah, like a dungeon dragon
Like a dungeon dragon, like a dungeon dragon

Roman! Roman!
Stop it, stop it!
You've gone mad, mad, I tell you, mad!
You and this boy Slim Shady!
What's goin' on?
They'll lock you away!
They'll put you in a jail cell!
I promise!
Take your mother's warning, Roman
Pleaaaaaaase
Back to bed! Run along!
Let's go! Come on!
Wash your mouth out with soap, boys

EXPOSE URSELF

2011-01-12T09:21:00.001-05:00

"GOOD MORNING BEAUTIFUL" TEXTS ARE THE BEST LOL

AAAAAHHHHHHH JANET IS GOING ON TOUR

2011-01-12T09:08:00.002-05:00

JANET JACKSON ANNOUNCED HER US TOUR DATES.... I SOOO WISH I COULD GO TO ONE OF HER CONCERTS... SHE AWESOME!! LOL

Chicago, IL March 7 & 8 The Chicago Theatre
Toronto, ON, Canada March 12 Sony Centre for the Performing Arts
Uncasville, CT, March 16 Mohegan Sun Arena
New York, NY March 18 Radio City Music Hall
Washington, DC March 22 DAR Constitution Hall
Atlantic City, NJ March 25 & 26 Borgata Spa & Resort Event Center
Atlanta, GA March 29 Fox Theatre
Saint Louis, MO March 31 Fox Theatre
Grand Prairie, TX April 2 Verizon Theatre
Denver, CO April 6 Wells Fargo Theatre at the Colorado Convention Center
Phoenix, AZ April 8 Comerica Theatre
Santa Barbara, CA April 9 Santa Barbara Bowl
Los Angeles, CA April 14 Gibson Amphitheatre
San Francisco, CA April 19 Bill Graham Civic Auditorium
Las Vegas, NV April 22 & 23 Caesars Palace – The Colosseum

BRITTTNEY AT THE GRAMMYS?

2011-01-12T08:58:00.000-05:00

MMMMMM IHEARD THAT BRITNEY SPEARS WAS PERFORMING AT THE GRAMMYS... THATS INTERESTING.. GUESS WE WILL HAVE TO WAIT TIL FEB 13TH AT 8PM TO SEE LOL

THE GAME

2011-01-12T08:39:00.004-05:00

SOOO I KNOW EVERYONE IS AWARE BY NOW.. BUT THE GAME PREMIERED LAST NIGHT ON BET...
I REMEMBER WATCHING THE GAME EVERY FRIDAY NIGHT WHEN IT CAME ON THE CW...
&& PERSONALLY AFTER WATCHING LAST NIGHTS EPISODE..
IT SHOULD HAVE STAYED WITH THE CW.
I DONT THINK LAST NIGHTS EPISODE WAS HORRIBLE..
BUT IT DEFINATELY COULD HAVE BEEN BETTER..
IT DIDNT FLOW LIKE THE ORIGINAL EPISODES...
IN ALOT OF SCENES IT FELT LIKE THEY WERE REACHING!!

TASHA MACK BEING SCARED OF KELLY PITTS? UMM NEGATIVE.. THATS NOT EVEN FUNNY LOL
AND WHO THE HELL AUTHORIZED TERRANCE J TO BE TASHA'S LOVE INTEREST.. I KNEW HE HAD SIGNED A CONTRACT TO BE ON THE SHOW.. BUT WTH I THOUGHT HE WAS GONNA BE TT.. LOL & SPEAKING OF TT.. MALIK IS SOOOO WRONG FOR SLEEEPING WITH TT'S BOO.. BUT HE IS WRONG IN EVERYTHING HE DOES.. SMH ITS THE FIRST EPISODE & ALREADY MALIK IS ON MY NERVES... ANOTHER PERSON WHO IS REALLY ON MY NERVES WOULD BE KELLY PITTS.... SHE IS WAYY TO EXTRA AS JASON SAID "WITH UR DURAN DURAN HAIR" LOL. BRIT BRAT IS A LIL TO OLD FOR HER BRITCHES, SHE NEEDS TO PIPE THAT MAKEUP & WEAVE DOWN.. AND PUT ON SOME PANTS.. LOL AS FAR AS MELANIE AND DERWIN.. TO ME THEY SEEMED THE MOST NORMAL.. ITS NICE TO SEE THEY HAVE A NEW HOUSE AND THAT MELANIE IS MAKING AN EFFORT TO BOND WITH D.J. AS FAR AS HER GIVING THE BABY A DNA TEST... UMM I DONT SEE WHATS WRONG WITH IT.. YES SHE MAY HAVE DONE IT IN A POOR MANOR.. BUT JENAE IS A SCALLY WAG & JUST LIKE MELANIE SAID, JENAE WANTS WHAT THEY HAVE.... SO KUDOS TO MELANIE FOR SIMPLY TRYING TO PROTECT WHATS HERS....IM INTERESTED TO WHAT TRANSPIRES IN THIS SEASON

&& WHO IN THE HELLL AUTHORIZED TASHA TO SMOKE A BLACK.. SMH I WAS DISGUSTED BY THAT

HAPPY NEW YEAR!!!!!!!!!!

2011-01-12T08:30:00.000-05:00

HAPPY NEW YEAR TO ALL MY PRECIOUS BLOG READERS..... YES I KNOW ITS JANUARY 12TH LOL BUT SO WHAT.. BETTER LATE THAN NEVER..... AHHH I HAVE SO MUCH TO SHARE WITH MY BLOG.. SO GIVE ME TIME AND I WILL GET IT ALL OUT..

NEW YEARS RESOLUTIONS? NO ILL PASS

2010-12-28T09:54:00.003-05:00

AS THE NEW YEAR APPROACHES..
MANY PEOPLE WILL BOAST ABOUT HOW THEY ARE GOING TO BE DIFFERENT IN 2011, .
HOW THEY WILL DO DIFFERENT THINGS & ASSOCIATE WITH
DIFFERENT PEOPLE IN THIS NEW YEAR.
PERSONALLY I DONT BELEIVE IN RESOLUTIONS.
IF YOU WANT TO MAKE A CHANGE..
DO IT NOW!!
DONT WAIT UNTIL THE NEW YEAR..
WHAT EXACTLY ARE WE WAITING ON?
IF YOU WANT TO STOP ASSOCIATING WITH CERTAIN PEOPLE..
DO IT!
DONT WAIT TIL THE NEW YEAR SO THEY CAN ANNOY YOU EVEN MORE...

ANY CHANGES YOU WANT TO MAKE... YOU SHOULD DO JUST THAT... MAKE THEM!! DONT WAIT FOR ANY SIGNIFICANT THINGS TO HAPPEN... JUST DO IT =)

R.I.P TO ALL THE STARS WHO PASSED AWAY IN 2010

2010-12-28T09:33:00.002-05:00

1. TEDDY PENDERGRASS PASSED AWAY JANUARY 13TH.. HE WAS 59

2. DIXIE CARTER.. WHO PLAYED JULIA SUGARBAKER ON THE TV SHOW DESIGNING WOMEN PASSED AWAY APRIL 10TH. SHE WAS 70

3. GURU (GOVERNMENT NAME: KEITH ELAM ) PASSED WAY APRIL 19TH. HE SERVED AS HALF OF THE DUO GANG STARR. HE WAS 43.

4. LENA HORNE PASSED AWAY MAY 9TH AT THE AGE OF 92.

5. GARY COLEMAN PASSED AWAY MAY 28TH AT THE AGE OF 42.

6. RUE McCLANAHAN PASSED AWAY JUNE 3RD. SHE IS MOST FAMOUS FOR HER ROLE ON THE HIT SHOW, THE GOLDEN GIRLS (ONE OF MY ALL TIME FAVS) SHE WAS 76.

7. BARBARA BILLINGSLEY THE MOM FROM THE HIT SHOW LEAVE IT TO BEAVER PASSED AWAY OCTOBER 16TH AT THE AGE OF 94.

8. TEENA MARIE WAS FOUND DEAD IN HER HOME DECEMBER 26TH. SHE WAS 54

i found this article to be pretty interesting...

2010-12-28T09:18:00.000-05:00

Here are 21 signs of stress. Look through the list to help you uncover areas in your life where stress is stealing the vital energies you need to be a quietly happy, inwardly whole human being. Study the list closely. Ask yourself if the character or daily condition describes you in any way, and if so, then give yourself one point for every “Yes, that’s true about me, or my life” that you find. Honesty is essential.

1. Finding fault with others comes easily to you.

2. You can condemn yourself at the drop of a hat.

3. Your day is likely to have many minor irritations in it.

4. Competition of any kind makes you feel alive.

5. You have a tendency to rush, even when there is no real need for it.

6. One form or another of some unfinished business is always hanging over your head.

7. You love being the center of attention, even if it’s just starring in your own mental movies.

8. Nothing is ever quite good enough for you.

9. You tend to make mountains out of molehills.

10. Revisiting past painful moments seems a natural thing to do.

11. You rarely see and feel something beautiful at least three times a day.

12. People tend to move too slowly for you.

13. More events in your life fail to measure up to your expectations than exceed them.

14. It doesn’t take much for you to feel as though someone has mistreated you.

15. You are easily shocked or irritated by the inconsideration of others.

16. Sitting quietly and doing nothing is difficult for you to do.

17. It’s easy for you to see what’s wrong with everyone else around you.

18. You tend to always arrive a little bit late for your appointments.

19. Confusion is your favorite fallback position when things don’t go as planned.

20. More often than not, you wait until the last moment to do what needs to be done.

21. There are people in your past that you still blame for the pain you feel now.

How Stressed are You? See Your Score

If your score is 1 – 5 You have some stress in your life, but your days are basically bright.

If your score is 6 – 12 Stress is manageable, but you often feel like you’re coming unwrapped!

If your score is 13 – 21 You are basically addicted to stressful states, and your health is at risk.

http://www.beliefnet.com/Inspiration/2010/11/21-Signs-of-Stress.aspx?utm_medium=paid_syndication&utm_source=outbrain&utm_campaign=inspiration_sponsorship_syndication <--- heres the link

mottto for life

2010-12-20T15:30:00.002-05:00

"LOVE ALL, TRUST A FEW DO WRONG TO NONE" - SHAKESPEARE

mottto for life

2010-12-20T15:30:00.000-05:00

"LOVE ALL, TRUST A FEW DO WRONG TO NONE" - SHAKESPEARE

quickie

2010-12-19T18:16:00.002-05:00

<-- hmmm what do u think abt that

<--- yummm love him

very true

2010-12-13T13:10:00.000-05:00

"If a woman’s sleeping with this dude one night, another guy the next, no one’s taking her seriously. If you don’t give it up, he doesn’t have that power. We get men’s attention when we close our legs. For me, it’s not a game. I’m seeing what I can put up with. I’m not perfect, but I need to know if I’m going to like you on the days when I don’t want to like you."

Read more: Taraji P. Henson In Complex: “If You Don’t Give It Up, He Doesn’t Have The Power” | Necole Bitchie.com

http://necolebitchie.com/2010/12/10/taraji-p-henson-in-complex-if-you-dont-give-it-up-he-doesnt-have-the-power/

QUICKK FIX

2010-12-09T13:24:00.001-05:00

MY BOO THANG (LOL) CHRIS BROWN & BIG SEAN IN STUDIO SESSION

<- R. KELLY'S PERFORMANCE ON JIMMY FALLON HE DID AMAZING

<- KANDI'S NEW VIDEO... I THINK SHE LOOKS SO PRETTY & I LOVE THE PURPLE

EXACTLY WHAT IM GOING THRU RIGHT NOW

2010-12-09T13:22:00.000-05:00

“I think most people in their twenties go through some sort of depression. If you’re successful at a young age, no matter the profession, there has to come a time when you reevaluate everything, what it means to you. Is this what I want to do for the rest of my life?” -KIRSTEN DUNST

R.I.P ELIZABETH EDWARDS

2010-12-08T10:40:00.001-05:00

THE ESTRANGED WIFE OF JOHN EDWARDS PASSED AWAY TUESDAY EVENING. SHE BATTLED BREAST CANCER FOR 6 YEARS

WESLEY SNIPES TO SPEND 3 YEARS IN JAIL

2010-12-08T09:51:00.002-05:00

TOMORROW WESLEY SNIPES WILL TURN HISSELF IN TO SERVE A 3 YEAR TERM FOR TAX EVASION... ACCORDING TO CNN.COM SNIPES EARN 40MILLION FROM 1999-2008 AND DID NOT PAY TAXES ON HIS EARNINGS

WOW THIS IS INTERESTING

2010-12-08T09:44:00.002-05:00

ROLLING STONE MAGAZINE NAMED KANYE WEST RECENT RELEASE "My Beautiful Dark Twisted Fantasy" THE NUMBER 1 ALBUM OF 2010

ugh

2010-12-07T20:20:00.000-05:00

my sweet dream... turned into a beautiful nightmare

sick & tired - monica

2010-12-07T20:19:00.000-05:00

There were times when we used to go out
Now all we do is scream and shout
Used to by me things and compliment
Now everything's an arguement
Tell me when it ever went wrong
Cause I don't wanna be another couple that you hear in a sad song
Whay can't we communicate
Before it's much too late

Chorus:
And I'm sick of playing games
I'm sick of waiting by
Other times we're cool
and other times we're not
I'm sick of crying all these nights
I'm sick of being sick and tired

And I'm sick of all these rules
I'm sick of all these lies
Half the time we're cool
And other times we're not
Sick of waitng all my life
I'm sick of being sick and tired

Verse 2:
Remember when we used to have fun
I know you can't even remember the last time
I know your seeing someone
Cause you've been walking around like everything was just fine
What the hell have I done
For you to have me feeling like I'm loosing me mind
I don't wanna be with no one
But you always front on being nice

Chorus:
And I'm sick of playing games
I'm sick of waiting by
Other times we're cool
and other times we're not
I'm sick of crying all these nights
I'm sick of being sick and tired

And I'm sick of all these rules
I'm sick of all these lies
Half the time we're cool
And other times we're not
Sick of waitng all my life
I'm sick of being sick and tired

Bridge:
I never did ask for nothing
But I can tell your going through something
Now why would you risk me leaving our home
I hope you put your thought into this
Cause when I'm gone I know that you'll miss
All my love
Cause baby when it's gone I'm gone gone gone gone gone I'm gone gone gone

Said I'm sick and tired
of all the lies
can't do it nomore
Said I can't do it nomore
So, so, so, so tired
Ladies, Ladies help me sing I'm

Chorus:
And I'm sick of playing games
I'm sick of waiting by
Other times we're cool
and other times we're not
I'm sick of crying all these nights
I'm sick of being sick and tired

And I'm sick of all these rules
I'm sick of all these lies
Half the time we're cool
And other times we're not
Sick of waitng all my life
I'm sick of being sick and tired

THE BEST THING IVE READ IN A LONG WHILE

2010-11-18T13:50:00.001-05:00

I DIDNT WRITE ANY OF THIS.. I RECEIVED THIS IN MY WORK EMAIL AND I THOUGHT IT WAS AMAZING.. JUST WANTED TO SHARE IT WITH MY READERS....

When I first heard of the movie "For Colored Girls" I got so excited. I had the idea of getting as many women together that I could think of to go see this movie. I had visions of group discussions and moments shared with one another that would lead to healing and growth, I guess I kind of imagined a Women’s Empowerment Conference type of setting.

Well after I shared my idea with a few women, reality set in and I realized that so many of us wouldn't be willing to participate for various reasons: You don't like me, you don't care for somebody I might invite, you only hang out with certain people, you don't understand the big deal about Tyler Perry making yet another movie about black people and our issues for all the world to see, you don't like crowds, so n so is too ghetto, such and such is too uppity etc... It has ALWAYS amazed me that we as black women are each other’s biggest critics. We are the quickest to bring each other down, find each other’s faults and nitpick at a sister until she has nothing left, nothing left to give and then we step over her and call her worthless. We take the prettiest women and tear them down for thinking "they are cute" but turn around and dog the average sista because "she know she should take better care of herself than that - can't believe she got a man!" We call strong women female dogs and accuse weaker women of riding somebody else's coat tails. We tell a big sista to put down her burger and turn around and criticize a skinny woman for not picking one up. We ride the loud mouth woman for "talking to darn much" and likewise torment the quiet woman for "Being too quiet and needing to take up for herself" Sad part is we don't discriminate, we talk about everybody!!!

I've watched women dog out everybody from Oprah for catering to white people and Halle Berry for not being able to keep a man to young Willow Smith for acting to darn grown in her recent video. All of these females are successful and there is something about each one of them to be proud of but a lot of us can't seem to see that. I have to wonder since we all share a common thread (whether we want to admit it or not) is there something about ourselves that we don't like, what has happened to us that we cannot seem to get along. Why is that we fight amongst ourselves, backstab & steal each other’s men (only to find out we should have left him where we found him). We cannot seem to be unified to support and stick up for one another. Everybody seems to be out for themselves while other groups unite against us but nobody else has to bring us down because we trample on the spirits of each other daily.

Even if you live in a mini mansion, drive a luxury car, have good credit, rich handsome husband etc, this does not mean that should look down your nose at the woman with 4 kids, no husband, living in income based housing struggling to keep her lights on. We ALWAYS think the grass is greener on the other side, I had a woman who's child father is MIA tell me that I should never complain because I receive a decent amount of child support and I laughed and let her know that I would gladly give every dime back if he would come relieve some of this overwhelming pressure of feeling inadequate as a parent. If I could get just one full night of sleep or not always be on the verge of losing my job because I’m the one that has to call off or leave work for one reason or another to accommodate my child - yeah he could DEFINITELY have his money if I could have some peace! Money alone doesn't make you happy (not true happiness), good credit doesn't keep you satisfied, beauty doesn't make you any less insecure, fame doesn't make you less vulnerable or cause you to be a good judge of character and being stuck up and mean doesn't keep you warm at night or prevent you from being lonely.

You don't know how the sista sitting right next to you could have carefully put on her make up this morning to hide the beating from last night. The teacher you handed your child over to this morning could have sent her children off to school from a dark house with empty bellies. The teller you just got rude with at the bank could know that today is her last day on her job and have no idea how she is going to survive past next weekend. The sista at the office that appears so busy could be typing her good-byes to all the people that she loves because she plans to blow her brains out tonight after she tucks her babies into bed. The woman you pass in the hallway could be on her way to have an abortion because she fears what others might think or how the woman that sent you this e-mail may drink an over abundance of alcohol every night to mask the nightmares of an abusive childhood.

Ladies we HAVE TO DO BETTER!!! I'm not suggesting that we all like each other and be phony, But I am asking that we all try to respect each other. You HAVE NO IDEA what the next woman is going through, you don't know what past or current hurt and pains have shaped her into who she is today. We spend so much time trying to be as strong and hard as we are expected to be that we end up cracking from the inside out piece by piece. If we would spend 1/3 of the time we spend tearing each other down to build someone up, encourage someone, show someone some love, we could truly make a difference and save someone's life. PLEASE don't be the straw that breaks another woman's back. Believe me when I tell you that there is a woman out there that needs your smile, your hug, your support, your prayer.

I hope that you read this and get something out of it other than a laugh and that you pass this on to as many women as you can to let someone know that you believe they are somebody special and that if need be you are available to listen. Nothing bad is going to happen if you don't forward this e-mail but I'd like to think that something positive will happen if you choose to pass it along. May favor be extended to each and every one of your lives, keep your head up and know that someone somewhere cares!!!

VIDS

2010-11-03T17:35:00.001-04:00

LOOOVVE RASHHHEEEDDAAAA

Twitter.com/kirbymaurier

20 Things Couples Should Do Before They Move In Together

2010-11-02T09:54:00.002-04:00

ANOTHER ONE FROM THEFRISKY.COM

Agree on who will pay for what.

Agree on how to handle an unplanned pregnancy.

Decide if they’re both on the same page when it comes to marriage (in general, and to each other).

Come up with at least one reason to move in together other than finances and convenience.

Consider some of the realistic challenges cohabitation might create.

Meet each other’s “people,” including close friends and family members.

Know each other’s financial situation.

Agree on a three-year plan.

Say “I love you” to each other.

Decide whose bed you’re going to keep.

Poop in each other’s respective apartments.

Spend more than two nights in a row together.

Experience heartbreak on some level.

Celebrate at least one major holiday together.

Discuss how to divvy household chores.

Pick out at least one new object of some value — financial, aesthetic, or symbolic — for the home together.

Have a trial sleepover for your pets.

Travel together.

Make sure there’s enough closet space for both of you.

Have at least one big fight.

http://www.thefrisky.com/post/246-20-things-couples-should-do-before-they-move-in-together/

The 7 Biggest Relationship Mistakes You Can Make

2010-11-02T09:24:00.001-04:00

I WAS BROWSING THRU THEFRISKY.COM LIKE I USUALLY DO WHILE IM AT WORK AND I CAM ACROSS THIS LIST.. I FELT IT WAS GOOD ENOUGH TO SHARE....

1. Moving Too Fast. It all seemed like such a good idea at the time! If you’re in love, you can’t get there—wherever “there” is—fast in enough. So you see each other every night, move in together within a month, get engaged after less than a year, and boom you’re at the altar before your next birthday has a chance to roll around. Sure, sometimes this methodology works, and who wants to play “better safe than sorry” when it comes to matters of the heart? But there’s nothing wrong with taking it slow, with letting him court you, letting him get to know you, and letting the universe be your guide. Rather than your desire to be committed to each other forever. After all, that’s a damn long time.

2. Saying “I Love You” First. Almost two years ago, Wendy wrote one of this site’s most controversial, and widely read, posts ever: “Why A Woman Shouldn’t Say ‘I Love You’ First.” Don’t like the sound of that? Your shrink have a problem with that? Is it, um, too late anyway? Wendy hit the nail on the head when she noted of men and love: “[I]t often takes men longer to get there than it does for women.” It may not be politically correct or perfectly feminist, but there are times when it’s better to let the guy take the lead. When you’re venturing into serious emotional territory, give your man the space to fall in love.

3. Not Having Sex. It’s really amazing how little importance too many people place on sex in a relationship. In fact, if you’re looking for a true status update on the well-being of your relationship, you may be best served by taking a closer look at your sex life. If you aren’t doing it, there is a problem. There may be reasons galore. Maybe it’s his problem. Maybe it’s your problem. But if you aren’t being physically intimate with each other on a mutually satisfactory basis, there’s a good chance that your relationship foundation is slipping.

4. Ill Communication. Lord knows men aren’t always the greatest when it comes to talking freely about how they feel, and, ladies, well, there are some among you who maybe should spend less time talking about your relationships. Guys are doers. Women are emoters. But this crazy clash can be overcome by learning each other’s language. You could stand around all day waiting for a guy to talk about his inner-most issues, and, truth be told, it may never happen. In all likelihood, our ongoing desire to get a man to really understand what we are saying may never reach fruition. The answer isn’t making the other person into what you want them to be. It’s about figuring out how they communicate, and speaking to them in their language.

5. The Grass Is Greener. It may seem obvious, but you really shouldn’t cheat. All of us would like to believe that cheating on our significant other is something “other people” do, but is it? Cheating happens, and it happens more than you’d think. Whether or not to tell your partner once it’s happened can be decided only on a case-by-case basis, but the fact of that matter is that once the dirty deed has been done, you’ve poisoned the well. If you don’t tell, you’re a liar. If you do tell, you’re a cheat. And if he cheats, what’s a girl to do? You can forgive, but you may never forget. Cheating is like hiring a boxer to come and beat up your relationship. It’s not worth the metaphorical black eye.

6. It Ain’t Monopoly Money. If you’re in a serious, adult, committed relationship, if you’re married, or if you’re living together, you’re financially intertwined. Especially in this economy, money matters are a potential minefield for lovers. Generally, finances have the potential to impact a relationship negatively for one clear-cut reason: if you’re not dealing with your mutual financial reality. If you’re on the money with your money, more power to you. If you’re not—if you’d rather avoid the subject, if your spending habits are totally out of sync, if you enable one another financially—there’s no time like the present to straighten out your shared relationship to cash flow. Most times, couples seek out a counselor to solve relationship issues, but there’s no shame in booking an appointment with a financial expert to help resolve your money issues.

7. Don’t Get Lazy. Think your job is work? Well, your relationship is work, too. Ask yourself: What makes your relationship work? Really work? Do you feel happier when you go to the gym? Is he more relaxed when he hangs out with the boys every once in a while? Is it undeniable that if you don’t get a date night going soon, you’re going to go on strike? Relationships don’t pilot themselves. If you’re in a relationship rut, it’s up to both of you to get proactive and steer yourselves into a happier, brighter future.

http://www.thefrisky.com/post/246-biggest-relationship-mistakes-you-can-make/
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PUBLIC SERVICE ANNOUNCEMENT

2010-10-26T10:03:00.004-04:00

IF YOU HAVE AN ISSUE WITH SOMEONE.. BE AN ADULT AND TAKE IT UP WITH THEM... DONT MAKE SMART ASS COMMENTS ABOUT THEM AND THEY DONT KNOW.. GROW A SET AND DISCUSS IT WITH THEM.. BECAUSE IN THE END.. THE ONLY PERSON WHO CAN DO ANYTHING ABT THE PROBLEM IS THEM... AND AFTER U TALK TO THEM ABOUT IT.. LET IT GOOOOOO.. NO NEED TO DWELL ON.. YOU LOOK CHILDISH AND PETTY

FRIENDS AND RELATIONSHIPS

2010-10-26T09:47:00.003-04:00

HIIIIII!!! life has been super hectic and i kno i have neglected this blog i apologize.. lol

IVE BEEN MEANING TO BLOG ABOUT THIS FOR A WHILE BUT IVE BEEN BUSY.. LETS TALK ABOUT FRIENDS AND RELATIONSHIPS.....

ITS DIFFICULT TO BE IN A RELATIONSHIP.. ESP A NEW ONE.. WHERE YOU ARE STILL TRYING TO BUILD THAT FOUNDATION... AND STILL HAVE TIME FOR YOUR FRIENDS.. AS WELL AS YOURSELF.. YOU DONT WANT ANYONE TO FEEL NEGLECTED IN ANYWAY....

AS A PERSON IN THE MIDDLE YOU GOTTA BE PRETTY GOOOD AT TIME MANAGEMENT LOL..YEA ITS DIFFICULT BUT WITH A FEW TWEAKS HERE AND THERE AND NO ONE MAKING IT MORE DIFFICULT THAN NEED BE.. YOU WILL BE FINE..

AND WHEN I SAY NO ONE MAKING THINGS MORE DIFFICULT.. I MEAN.. YOUR SO CALLED FRIENDS CATCHING ATTITUDES AND FEELING SOME KINDA WAY BECAUSE YOU WANT TO SPEND TIME WITH YOUR BOO... OR YOU WANT YOUR BOO TO BE WHERE YOU ARE.. GRANTED NO ONE WANTS TO FEEL LIKE A 3RD WHEEL.. BUT YOUR FRIENDS ALSO NEED TO BE UNDERSTANDING...

AND YOUR SIGNIFICANT OTHER ALSO SHOULD REALIZE THAT.. YOU AND YOUR FRIENDS HAD SOME TYPE OF BOND B4 THAT PERSON CAME ALONG.. AND THEY SHOULD RESPECT AND APPREIATE THAT. AND NOT TRY AND GET IN THE MIDDLE OF THAT...

IF YOUR IN THE UNFORTUNATE SITUATION WHERE UR FRIEND AND YOUR LOVER DONT NECCESSARILY LIKE EACH OTHER (SUCKS FOR YOU LOL ), BOTH OF THEM NEED TO UNDERSTAND THAT THEY STILL NEED TO RESPECT EACH OTHER.. BECAUSE IT PUTS YOU IN A DIFFICULT POSITION

AT THE END OF THE DAY.. ALL PARTIES NEED TO BE UNDERSTANDING AND REspECTFUL.. IF NOT ITS NEVER GONNA WORK .. ONE OF THEM WILL HAVE TO GOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO

LOVE IT LOVE IT

2010-10-14T07:26:00.002-04:00

EVERYONE KNOWS HOW MUCH OF A RIHANNA FAN IM NOT! BUT I LOVE THIS SONG... ITS AMAZING

Only Girl (in The World) lyrics

La la la la
La la la la
La la la la
La la la la

I want you to love me, like I’m a hot pie
Keep thinkin’ of me, doin’ what you like
So boy forget about the world cuz it’s gon’ be me and you tonight
I wanna make you beg for it, then imma make you swallow your pride

{CHORUS}

Want you to make me feel like I’m the only girl in the world?
Like I’m the only one that you’ll ever love
Like I’m the only one who knows your heart
Only girl in the world…
Like I’m the only one that’s in command
Cuz I’m the only one who understands how to make you feel like a man
Yeeeah...
Want you to make me feel like I’m the only girl in the world
Like I’m the only one that you’ll ever love
Like I’m the only one who knows your heart
Only one…

Want you to take me like a thief in the night
Hold me like a pillow, make me feel right
Baby I’ll tell you all my secrets that I’m keepin’, You can come inside
And when you enter, you ain’t leavin’, be my prisoner for the night

{CHORUS}

Want you to make me feel like I’m the only girl in the world?
Like I’m the only one that you’ll ever love
Like I’m the only one who knows your heart
Only girl in the world…
Like I’m the only one that’s in command
Cuz I’m the only one who understands, like I’m the only one who knows your heart, only one…

{BRIDGE}

Take me for a ride, ride
Oh baby, take me high, high
Let me make you first, first
Oh make it last all night, night
Take me for a ride, ride
Oh baby, take me high, high
Let me make you first, first
Make it last all night(LONG SOLO)

{CHORUS}

Want you to make me feel like I’m the only girl in the world
Like I’m the only one that you’ll ever love
Like I’m the only one who knows your heart
Only girl in the world…
Like I’m the only one that’s in command
Cuz I’m the only one who understands how to make you feel like a man
Only girl in the world…
Girl in the world…
Only girl in the world…
Girl in the world…
(LONG SOLO)

ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh MY FAV SONG AT THE MOMENT

2010-10-08T22:05:00.000-04:00

POW POW POW POW POW POW POW POW

2010-10-05T09:08:00.002-04:00

THIS ARTICLE IS AMAZING I FEEL LIKE EVERYONE SHOULD READ IT AND APPLY IT TO THEIR LIFE

My boyfriend of four months is still friends with his exes; one of whom works at the same place as him (smh). He says the reason he’s still friends with his exes is because they were friends BEFORE they started a relationship and things ended on “good terms.” Personally, I don’t see how things could have ended on good terms when he has been nothing but played, used, and abused by these women. He’s a sweetheart who wears his heart completely on his sleeve. But, unfortunately his kindness has often been manipulated by these predatory beings. I believe his exes mainly want to stick around to position themselves for a possible “in” in case things don’t work out with his present situation, so they can continue to use him. (God forbid, since things are still so new with us). Maybe he just doesn’t have enough guts and backbone to tell them to stop calling, texting, emailing, etc. This past weekend, he came up to see me, and while he was in the shower, one of his exes (the one that works at his job) called knowing full and well that he was away to see his girlfriend for the weekend. She really is trying to sabotage the little bit of happiness he has found with someone else, by trying to get in the way and cause an imbalance What is it that she needs to talk about so urgently? What’s the use of having extra friends? What am I here for, then? Am I wrong for wanting him to completely cut all communication off with his exes, especially since there are no kids/financial ties involved?

- Annoyed Amore

Dear Amore,

First off, congrats on your new relationship, four months is a long way. Not many people make it to that point. Let me start off by addressing some of the hot-mess parts of this situation that stood out to me. Once, I had a crush on this girl in my office. She kept saying to me, “I don’t [crap], where I eat.” I didn’t understand this until I had a friend go through serious drama with a flame at work. I think it’s weird that he’s the type of guy who dates women at his job. In reference to his past relationships and how they ended, I still have exes (plural) who hit me up for dating advice, and it stings. Sometimes, men stay friends with women who have hurt them so they can salvage some victory in a losing situation.

Drake said it best, “An eager beaver can be the collapse of a dam.” Watch out for those women trying to wait for your relationship to end so they can move in. I’m a man, we’ve been doing that since the beginning of time. I found out in elementary school not to get mad when my crush is with someone else because he’ll eventually mess it up. If there is evidence that those women are trying to get back in, he should cut them off. And, although I do not condone intrusive behavior, he can prove it by just letting you pick up the phone when they call. Don’t do this without him being close by, but you should be able to pick up the phone and say, “Hey what’s up this is [his name]’s phone, he is busy.” If they hang up, something is up.

I tell all my friends that they have to make decisions about having friends of the opposite sex when they are in relationships. I read a GQ article that said, “A gentleman breaks up with a woman directly, and never calls again.” That resonated with me because there’s no need to keep in touch with an ex. You may end up being friends with some of your exes, but I would say that you need to have a clean break, not speak for half of the time you were in the relationship and then go back to being friends. Still, those friends do not need to be close or personal, just at the same level as anyone you stay in contact with periodically to check that they are in good health and family is well. I do not need to know what my ex is doing Friday night.

I say all this to say, if his relationships with exes bother you, he needs to make a compromise. If he is truly all in, with hopes that your relationship leads somewhere great, then he needs to pick his battles. Examine how to communicate this to him. I fear that you are probably concerned with coming across as possessive, but you should feel comfortable enough to speak to him about anything. Use “I” statements and don’t accuse him of cheating with them or being disingenuous.

Best,
Dr. J

HERE IS THE LINK TO THE ACTUAL ARTICLE...

http://bitchielife.necolebitchie.com/2010/10/ask-dr-j-should-you-remain-friends-with-your-ex-once-you%e2%80%99re-in-a-new-relationship/

awesome

2010-10-02T09:11:00.001-04:00

PERFECT EXPLANATION

2010-09-29T23:05:00.000-04:00

[Verse 1:]
A part of me wants to leave you alone.
A part of me wants for you to come home.
A part of me says I'm living a lie.
(And I'm better off without you.)
A part of me says to think it through.
A part of me says I'm over you.
A part of me wants to say goodbye.
A part of me is asking why...

[Pre-Chorus:]
A part of me wants to leave.
But a part of me wants to be here with you.
And everytime I think we're over and done you do something to get me back loving you.
And you got me just torn.

[Chorus:]
Torn in between the two. (Oh yeah)
Cuz I really wanna be with you.
But something's telling me I should leave you alone. (I really want to be with you)
Leave you alone.
Leave you alone.
And you got me just torn in between the two. (In between the two)
Cuz I really wanna be with you. (Be with you)
But something's telling me I should leave you alone. (You alone)
Leave you alone.
Leave you alone.

[Verse 2:]
There were no issues when we started out.
It was cool.
It was everything that love's about.
But something happened.
Plus I feel it's over now.
(Cuz I can't understand you now.) Now oh
(I just can't understand you now.)
A part of me says it's all my fault.
A part of me says "he ain't what you want."
A part of me says to get my bags.
A part of me says I can't do that.

[Pre-Chorus:]
A part of me wants to leave.
But a part of me wants to be here with you.
And everytime I think that it's over and done you make me fall back in love.
You got me just torn.

[Chorus:]
Torn in between the two. (Between the two)
Cuz I really wanna be with you. (Be with you)
But something's telling me I should leave you alone.(You alone)
Leave you alone.
Leave you alone.
And you got me just torn in between the two. (Torn in between the two)
Cuz I really wanna be with you. (Really wanna be with you)
But something's telling me I should leave you alone. (Telling me I should leave)
Leave you alone. (Alone)
Leave you alone. (Alone)

[Bridge:]
So many times I... (I was ready to go)
So many times I... (Had my foot out the door)
So many times I... (I thought to give him a chance, thought he'd be a better man)
Now I'm sitting here and I'm so confused.
Cuz I keep fighting myself for you. (I don't know how much more I can take but I can't feel this way)
(You got me so torn)

[Chorus:]
Torn in between the two. (Oh yeah)
Cuz I really wanna be with you. (I really wanna be with you)
But something's telling me I should leave you alone.
Leave you alone.
Leave you alone. (But I don't know)
And you got me just torn in between the two. (Should I stay or should I go)
Cuz I really wanna be with you. (I don't know)
But something's telling me I should leave you alone. (You alone)
Leave you alone.
Leave you alone. (You alone)

And you got me just torn in between the two. (I'm torn in between the two)
Cuz I really wanna be with you. (I really wanna be with you)
But something's telling me I should leave you alone. (But I don't know)
Leave you alone.
Leave you alone.

[Repeat 3X]
And you got me just torn in between the two.
Cuz I really wanna be with you.
But something's telling me I should leave you alone.
Leave you alone.
Leave you alone.

AMAZING

2010-09-29T18:29:00.001-04:00

THIS IS PROBABLY ONE OF THE BEST SONGS I HAVE HEARD IN A WHILE....

You did me wrong
For the last time
And I took so much from you baby
But you really crossed the line
You know I ain’t mad for nothing
I call my momma, she go to my cousins
And they ain’t never liked you from the beginning
So listen I’m giving you only 10 seconds to go

[chorus]
1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, (oh),8 ,9 baby we getting close
Just don’t let me get to 10 (oh boy)

You broke my heart
With all your lies
You really should look for an exit
‘Cause you running out of time
You know that I can get crazy
When I go off ain’t nobody to tame me
I’m throwing and breaking s**t cussing and looking
For something to hit you
And you got 10 seconds to go

[chorus]
1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, (oh),8 ,9 baby we getting close
Just don’t let me get to 10 (oh boy)

[bridge]
You pushed me here
My back’s on the wall
There’s no more tears
I cried them all for you, yeah, you, you
(I cried ‘em all for you)
I honestly think that I’m being generous
Gave you my all and look what you did to us
Look how you finished us
So this is what I’m gonna do
10 seconds is all that I’m giving you

[chorus]
1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, (oh),8 ,9 baby we getting close
Just don’t let me get to 10 (oh boy)
Just don’t let me get to 10 oh boy

.....

2010-09-29T18:07:00.001-04:00

Never loose a WOMAN who loves & cares for you. One day you may realize you've lost the moon, while counting the stars.

UNFAITHFUL

2010-09-29T13:00:00.002-04:00

hmm sooo originally i was going to blog about the relationship between ur friends and your lovers.. but i change my mind... lets talkin abt being UNFAITHFUL

stepping out on ur significant other is a very bad thing.. but the actual definition of unfaithful i guess is up to whoever ur dealing with. To me everything is cheating.. lol ANYTHING that you feel is wrong if i do it.. to me if you do it.. you cheated ... BOTTOM LINE, but thats jus ME!

according to DICTIONARY.COM the definition of UNFAITHFUL is

–adjective
1. not faithful; false to duty, obligation, or promises; faithless; disloyal.
2. not sexually faithful to a spouse or lover.
3. not accurate or complete; inexact: an unfaithful translation.
4. Obsolete . unbelieving; infidel.

& the ddefinition of FAITHFUL is

–adjective
1. strict or thorough in the performance of duty: a faithful worker.
2. true to one's word, promises, vows, etc.
3. steady in allegiance or affection; loyal; constant: faithful friends.
4. reliable, trusted, or believed.
5. adhering or true to fact, a standard, or an original; accurate: a faithful account; a faithful copy.
6. Obsolete . full of faith; believing.

but to me being unfiathful to someone is a total waste of time an energy. if this person is not giving you what you need from ur significant other.. then LEAVE THEM ... yea it sucks.. but its much easier in the long run... the lies.. and more lies to cover up the original lies... the fear of always being caught. its not worth it.. esp if neither of ur lovers know about each other. thats 2 hearts to be broken out of one situation.... and even if one of ur lovers is aware of the other one.... they are still setlling for second best.. do you really want to date someone like that? PERSONALLY.. im good, but not everyone is like me.

i also beleive in KARMA on this one.. WHATEVER you do to hurt someoen... that pain you caused them is going to come back to you 10fold.. its pretty much a guranteee. so if you want someone to be honest and true.. then you must exibit the same attributes. but then again thats some BULLISH.. lol ive never been unfaithful to any one of my boyfriends, but ive never had a boyfriend be faithful to me either.. smh shame on them... oh well thats their problem.

THE BOTTOM LINE IS SIMPLY BE FAITHFUL.... & IF YOU KNOW YOU DONT WANT TO SETTLE DOWN WITH JUST ONE PERSON.. THEN DONT ! DATE AROUND, BUT MAKE SURE YOU LET WHOEVER YOUR DATING KNOW THAT YOU ARE NOT EXCLUSIVE WITH THEM.. THAT WAY THEY CAN MAKE THE DECISION ON THEIR OWN ON WHETHER THEY WANT TO CONTINUE WITH YOU.

- RAYNEFOREST

THIS IS SO ENLIGHTENING

2010-09-24T10:26:00.001-04:00

This is a question women of all races, backgrounds and ages have asked themselves. We think that if we treat our man well and love him with all of our hearts, he will have no other option than to do the same for us. He will want to do right by us. That is what reciprocation is about. The problem here is that most men feel entitled to a good woman and refuse to return the same actions toward her. They do not feel that they have to necessarily be a good guy in order to have a good woman. Here are a few reasons they are convinced they don’t have to modify their behavior.

Is He Ready?

A man has to be mentally ready for accepting a good woman into his life in order to know what to do with her. If he feels like he isn’t ready to be in a relationship with anyone, being open and honest, then there will be issues down the line. You will never feel like he is completely invested in the relationship. So, if he is not ready, then he will refuse to make any adjustments to his behavior. The woman is expected to deal with it and keep it moving. Is that a selfish way of behaving? Hell yes, but that is how a man’s mind works. They are more self-centered than women. So, many of their decisions and behaviors are a reflection of how they determined it will affect them. “What about me?” is a strong principle in their thinking. A woman could be giving the last bit of her energy and soul to him and he will not be cognizant of it because he is not yet ready to receive it.

Is He Capable?

Not every man has the capability of accepting and loving a good woman. Some are far too selfish to give themselves. Others were not taught the skills necessary to love a woman the way she deserves. This could be for several reasons: Perhaps he has a strained relationship with the mother figure in his life, he never had a father figure to teach him how a man should love a woman, or you may be the first woman he has ever come across that truly cared for him so he has no idea how to receive you. Whatever the case, he may not be emotionally capable of giving the love that a good woman deserves.

Strong Sense Of Entitlement

Men feel that they are entitled to a good woman regardless of their behavior. Good is how a woman is supposed to be in their minds. She is supposed to be virtuous, understanding and completely accepting of all of the issues and drama that he may come with. It doesn’t matter how he behaves. She is supposed to play her role regardless, because she is a woman. So, no matter how well you treat him, it won’t affect his behavior toward you. In his mind, you are behaving like you should. You are giving of yourself the way a good woman is supposed to. There is nothing significant about that to them.

Grass Is Greener Theory

He might be unable to accurately value her because in his mind, she may not be the cream of the crop. They may know that she is a good girl but also realizes that there are millions of other women in the world. One of these millions of women might be better than the good girl in some capacity. Thinking like this is what makes a man unable to reciprocate the love that their woman gives them. With that being said, they have to leave their options open just in case they come across something better. Of course that does not always mean he will leave her to go test the waters. Some men might cheat or just drag her along without any real commitment. These thoughts make it impossible for him to be good no matter how loving his woman is.

Be Careful What You Ask For

He may think that he wants a good woman because he thinks he is supposed to. However, he may have no idea what to do with her or how to treat her. More importantly, he has no clue how to love her. So, he wants what he is not necessarily mature enough to handle and accept. He wants a blessing but has no idea what to do with it. Unfortunately, some people ask for blessings when they are not necessarily ready for them mentally. They receive that blessing and have no idea what to do with it or how to maintain it. So, they lose it. That is what happens when you ask for things you are not ready for.

http://bitchielife.necolebitchie.com/2010/09/but-i%e2%80%99m-a-good-woman-shouldn%e2%80%99t-he-be-good-to-me/ <- HERES THE LINK

I THINK EVERY FEMALE SHOULD READ THIS

2010-09-24T10:25:00.000-04:00

You are who you hang out with and birds of a feather flock together. Everyone reading has probably heard both of these adages at some point in their lives. But, is there any truth to them? Do your friends, associates, patnas’, homies, or girlfriends–whatever title you give them–reflect who you are? Are their actions a direct reflection of your own personality and morals? Yes, they can be. But, much like all things, there are limitations to this.

First of all, there has to be something between the two of you that holds the friendship together. You have to have certain commonalities that make you even want to hang with this person. However, there will always be something that separates you two. For instance, I have friends who I think are still stuck in the hood. Not just physically, but mentally as well. They refuse to attempt to strive for more. They like their lives as is. They still participate in some activities that I do not agree with. That certainly is their choice. I am the polar opposite of that. I have always wanted more than the crumbs that were thrown at me due to my circumstances. So, I went out and got it. Now, I am still friends with these people and I still have love for them. I still care for them deeply and always will but, admittedly, our interactions have become limited. Not because I am so against their lifestyle but more so because the similarities that brought us together are not enough to keep us as close. The differences trumped the similarities, so the separation happened naturally. We will always be friends but with limitations. Why the limits? For fear that their lifestyle choices may bleed over into what I’m doing and affect me. The gravity of the differences are what distance the friendship.

It is when your friends’ decisions begin to affect you that things get sticky. An example of this is having a friend with a Kat Stacks mentality, and although she may be a sweetheart toward you, her reckless lifestyle and self-destructive ways can affect those close to her. Warning: this is when the adage you are who you hang out could greatly affect you. Not only could it affect your reputation but it could also affect your safety. So while we may have commonalities that brought us to each other, the differences are what could limit the depth of the friendship or completely separate us. You may not always be exactly identical to who you hang out with but there will be similarities. The similarities are what will hold the friendship strong while the differences can tear it apart. Another example is that you could have a friend who does crack. Yes, a crackhead friend. And although you may love them dearly, and your similarities brought you two together, the crack will undoubtedly keep a wall between you two and limit your growth together.

To answer the question as to whether birds of a feather truly do flock together, I would have to say, “Yes,” but with some limitations to the adage. These birds can come together due to some commonalities among them. However, the flying can never turn into true soaring if one of the birds likes to play and sit in sh*t. Warning! Don’t let any of their droppings get on you. Corny analogy, I know, but how else can you avoid being shi**ed on?

http://bitchielife.necolebitchie.com/2010/09/are-your-freinds-a-reflection-of-you/ <_ here is the link to the entire article

HAVENT DONE A VID UPDATE IN FOREVER

2010-09-21T20:09:00.002-04:00

<- SHE LOOKS AMAZING

<- THIS SHOULD BE GOOD

<- LMFAO

<- TASIA ON WEDNDY WILLIAMS... WENDY'S HAIR IS CUTE !

<- MY BOOO IS FEATURE ON TWISTA'S NEW SONG

<- MY JAM !

<- LOVE THIS SONG

<-BOTH MY BOO'S AT THE LUDA DAY B-BALL GAME.. CHECK RIGHT AROUND THE 8:26 MARK

< HILARIOUS !

SHE IS REALLY GOOD AT WHAT SHE DOES... CHECK HER OUT

2010-09-21T19:50:00.000-04:00

http://www.youtube.com/user/QueenofBlendingMUA#p/u

SMH I LOVE HIM LOL

2010-09-21T19:46:00.001-04:00

QUICKIE

2010-09-21T19:38:00.002-04:00

HI GUYS!!!!!

SUPER BUSY THIS WEEKEND.. I MOVED INTO MY AP[APARTMENT.. UGH MOVING IS A PAIN IN THE A** I HAVE SO MUCH STUFF.. BUT EVEN STILL I LOVE MY NEW APARTMENT I CANT WAIT TO DECORATE LIKE I WANT TO.. OTHER THAN THAT NOTHING MAJOR HAS HAPPENED...

UPDATE ON WHAT I READ THIS WEEK

BRUNO MARS WAS ALLEGEDLY BUSTED IN LAS VEGAS THIS WEEK 2.6 GRAMS OF COKE ON HIM <- YIKES !

CIARA: CONFIRMED SHE WILL BE RELEASING AN ALBUM THIS COMING NOVEMBER.. TITLED BASIC INSTINCT

CHRISETTE MICHELLE: ANNOUNCED THAT HER ALBUM WILL BE TITLED LET FREEDOM REIGN AND IT WILL BE RELEASED NOVEMBER 30TH! <- DAY B4 MY 23RD

JAZMINE SULLIVAN HAS AN ALBUM COMING OUT NOVEMBER 2ND TITLED LOVE ME BACK <- MUCHO EXCITED FOR HER

THATS ALLL FOR NOW

-RAYNEFOREST

HMMMM

2010-09-17T21:23:00.001-04:00

DONT FORGET TO MAKE YOU SIGNIFICANT OTHER FEEL SPECIAL..... MAKE SURE YOU SET ASIDE TIME FOR YOU AND THEM NO INTERRUPTIONS... WHAT U WONT DO... SOMEONE ELSE WILL

FLATINE.... BY TREY SONGZ

2010-09-17T09:54:00.000-04:00

Baby, you know my love aint gon' go no where,

And I know the only thing thats pumping through my veins, is you,

You know I'm only living for your love,

You see I hit the ground runnin',

Searchin' for your love,

And I'll never run from it, I promise,

I won't survive, without it,

I'm flatline,.

'Cause girl my heart beats for you,

I won't survive (for you)

It beats for you (I won't survive)

(for you) Girl my heart beats for you,

I won't survive

And I will never run from it, I promise

It beats for you,

WHAT DO YOU DO

2010-09-15T22:59:00.001-04:00

Oh how I yearn for your touch im so lonely now that you left me
If I could run away you know I would

When your love is lost
Your whole worlds thrown off
When the one you need dont need you
What do you do when love is lost

I dont wanna close my eyes dont wanna fall asleep
Tell me how I can I be fly without the wind beneath my wings

What do you do when love is lost

LADIES LADIES LADIES

2010-09-15T10:50:00.002-04:00

SMH.. AS FEMALES.. WE HAVE GOT TO STOP BEING SO CLINGY & NEEDY.. ALLOW YOUR SIGNIFICANT OTHER TO MISS YOU A LIL BIT.. ALWAYS BEING AVAILABLE MAKES YOU LOOK DESPERATE.

GIVE YOUR BOO SOME SPACE.. YOU DONT HAVE TO BE WITH HIM EVERY FREE MINUTE OF THE DAY... THATS GETS OLD!

DONT TRY AND SWITCH IT UP.. IF HE WAS OPEN AND HONEST WITH YOU ABOUT SOMETHING BEFORE YOU GUYS GOT TOGETHER.. DONT PRETEND THAT ITS OK, JUST FOR THE SAKE OF KEEPING HIM AROUND.. IF YOU HAVE AN ISSUE SPEAK ON IT.. AND IF YOU CHOOSE NOT TOO AT THAT MOMENT. DONT WAIT UNTIL YOU GUYS MAKE IT OFFICIAL TO TELL HIM YOU HAVE A PROBLEM. WTF YOU LOOK LIKE A LIAR AND A LOOSER. AND IT MAKES FOR AN AWKWARD SITUATION ONCE YOU DO TELL HIM.

DONT KEEP DOING THE SAME THINGS AND EXPECT THINGS TO BE DIFFERENT. IF YOU WANT SOMETHING TO CHANGE IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP.. THEN GET OFF YOUR BUM AND MAKE THE 1ST STEP. DONT JUST BLAME IT ALL ON UR SIGNIFICANT OTHER.

JUS SOME FRIENDLY ADVICE

--RAYNEFOREST

HELLO.... GOOD MORNING

2010-09-15T10:42:00.002-04:00

usually after every award show i do a recap but the MTV VIDEO MUSIC awards were whack & a waste of time... so i wont even go there.

instead ill do a recap of my life

UMMMM I WAS STRESSED OUT FOR LIKE 3 MONTHS ABOUT WHERE I WAS GOING TO MOVE TO AND ALL THAT JAZZ. BUT FINALLY THE DAY HAS COME.. I MOVE TODAY... IM DOWN SIZING A BIT BECAUSE I WANT TO GET A NEW CAR.. AND BECAUSE IM KNOWN FOR BEING PPHC (PRETTY PAID HIGH CLASS) LOL I KNO I WANT SOMETHING EXPENSIVE. SO I GOTTA DOWN SIZE.. BT IM NOT TRIPPIN, I LOVE LIVING ON MY OWN AND WOULDNT GIVE IT UP FOR THE WORLD.. IM TOTALLY REDECORATING MY NEW APARTMENT DIFFERENT FROM THE OLD ONE.. I CANT WAIT...

HOPEFULLY I START SCHOOL IN THE NEXT 90 DAYS... STAY TUNED FOR THAT

i realized the least likely person you think will don some scandolous stuff... is the main culprit.. shame shame.. i wish i didnt have such strong ties to this person otherwise you would be CUTTTTTTTTTT

AUGUST WAS A BIG MONTH FOR MY BABIES
MY BABY ZAY STARTED SCHOOL AUG 30TH... I LOVE HIM. HE LOOKED SO HANDSOME.. LOL MY BABY GIRLS HAD BIRTHDAYS IN AUG. ZOEY TURNED 2.. AUG 6TH.. AND VANNAH TURNED 1 AUG 31ST... I LOVE THEM = )

WELL THATS ALL FOR NOW

-RAYNEFOREST

I MAY BE LATE SO WHAT... ..

2010-08-24T11:21:00.003-04:00

JOE JACKSON & KATHERINE JACKSON ARE GETTING A DIVORCE !! WTF

How to Spot a Diva…

2010-08-24T11:06:00.000-04:00

I CAME ACROSS THIS AMAZING ARTICLE I THINK EVERYONE SHOULD READ....

Using the Beyoncian definition of diva to be a female version of a hustler, I wanted to draw a line between the average woman and a diva and why when you seen these characteristics about her, make sure to include her on your team. These traits are essential to really building a strong foundation with her and you should almost carry around a checklist like this when you’re out in social functions so you can be prepared. Divas are on the endangered species list right now, taken over by the carnivorous chickenhead population, the ambition-less and goal challenged. We’re going to have some fun with this one so don’t take it too seriously. If you do, perhaps you need a tune up on your life goals.

She’s less interested in what you ‘do’ than in what you’re ‘building’…

The precursory “what do you do” never escapes conversation, and with good right, as it is important to gauge where you are in life presently. Why waste your time with someone who obviously isn’t on the same wavelength as you? After that’s been taken out of the mix, the conversation should progress naturally to future goals, plans and aspirations on its own. If it doesn’t, if she is cognizant that you have more to you than the nice car outside and the number of drinks she can receive from you (which should be none by the way, divas can buy their own drinks) move on to the next one. On the other hand, if she matches goal for goal with you, as equally into where you hope to go as you are in her, you definitely have the makings of a diva.

She’s learned from past mistakes…

Past mistakes could be as simple as a missed opportunity at work , a bad dating choice or as severed as having an unplanned child or young marriage but the operative here is learned. That means that she’s better for it and understands that she’s grown from it. She’s a fighter for it and that in itself is something that is essential to a diva. You might think I’m joking when I say that you will run into more mentally defeated women than you will divas but that is the truth. The same applies to men for women so you know I’m not playing the misogynistic tone here. As easy as it is to be average, the lure is a hard one to ignore.

She has a clearcut view on her life now and in the future…

She doesn’t have to have a 20 year plan or anything as stringent but she should have an idea of what she wants to do in the immediate future. The thing about self planning is it is not what you plan; but that you do. If she understands the process of drafting her ideas into tangible, reachable objects, that means that you have someone that you won’t have to stop and break down each individual step to.

She has an inkling of what Hustle truly is…

To compliment the last point a bit in this one, even if she has no clue what it is exactly that she wants to do with her life, that she knows that she needs to look for it is an accomplishment in itself. In a sense it is like the mentally ill person who understands that they are having delusions or their inner peace is off enough to warrant the attention of someone more versed in it than they. The same applies to Hustle. That innate desire to learn more, better herself and elevate her position is a driving force that will have her in a state of constant change; terrible isn’t good enough, good isn’t the best and the best can always be better.

She’s not adverse to improving herself by any means necessary…

You can tell a lot about a person by what they won’t do. Notwithstanding anything immoral, illegal or unethical, on the ascension to greatness, no stone should be unturned and paper, at any level, is still paper and worth going after. If you’re getting “I don’t want to go back to school” for a quick flip trade or second language, you’re dealing with an individual with a stunted view on growth. If she’s against working a little overtime or picking up a side gig to cover start up costs for her Hustle, you’re dealing with someone not willing to inconvenience themselves for the greater good. A diva, like her male counterpart, is willing to go to 11 to get it done without question or worry.

She doesn’t take her entertainment seriously…

Real Housewives of Atlanta, mani/pedis, what jumpoff of the moment is creeping with every rapper in the industry and the interoffice gossip network. These are examples of things that cloud the average chick’s mind day in and out. Their eyes left the prize a long time ago and instead settled on the Tivo assisted television. A woman who is about hers lets that foolishness sit right where it is supposed to be–the downtime before she goes to sleep AFTER the work is done. I’m not condoning the willing brain rot that garbage like that provides but I understand that everyone needs a vice so I won’t go overboard. A diva is well aware that the programming on the set will not make her wealthier and instead of cuing up another hour long buffoon-a-thon whenever she can, she focuses on her Hustle as her primary entertainment.

She isn’t content…

In my life I’ve had the pleasure of meeting forward thinking women who was willing to go out there and find the answer on her own; in that same breath I’ve been burdened by women who take no social clues whatsoever. These are the types that you encounter frequently who swear up and down that they’re an “independent chick” but have no independent leg to stand on. Same as some guys, having a steady job, a decent car and a good apartment is not independence. At the very most, that is a stable foundation to build on, not put up the overalls, brush the dirt from your hands and go find some lemonade to relax with. It kills me that people want cookies and gold stars for the things that they’re supposed to be doing anyways! You’re supposed to be able to do for yourself and buy yourself the occasional treat. You’re supposed to be able to go to Hawaii for your vacation. That’s not extraordinary, that’s extra ordinary! You are not supposed to be down and out on your ass kicking it Skid Row style. That’s not the place to grow from, it’s the place to go from! like 50 Cent said in “God Gave Me Style” ‘You’re out the ‘hood, that’s good/ Now stay on the grind’. Celebrate the smallest victory yet reach for the biggest accomplishment you can fathom. Being middle of the road and ho-hum will not, I repeat, will not, cut it in 2011. Success or Die.

http://ambitionissexy.com/2010/08/how-to-spot-a-diva/

Friend Or Foe? 6 Ways To Distinguish Between The Two

2010-08-24T10:59:00.000-04:00

I READ THIS ON BITCHIE LIFE AND I THOUGHT IT WAS INTERESTING SO I DECIDED TO SHARE.. THE LINK IS AT THE BOTTOME

1. They Never Have Anything Nice To Say

This is deeper than one of your friends not agreeing with you. Your friends may not agree with everything that you wear or do and that is fine. However be cognizant of someone who is overly critical of you. This may be one of those people who feel that by bringing you down they uplift themselves. It gives them an orgasm every time they tear someone into pieces. They can then reign on their invisible chair of superiority.

2. They Mimic You

It is said that someone mimicking you is the highest form of flattery. In some situations that may be the case. However, when it comes to your friends it may mean that they are envious of you and this is how they display that emotion. It is okay to have a synergy where you two feed off each other and build each other up. However if this person is literally copying your behavior, style of dress, etc, then be cautious of how much you share with them. A perquisite of this behavior is that they may also be very quiet when they are around you. It is because they are observing you in order to jock your style later. Sure it might be cute at first, but when those displays of adoration transforms into full fledge jealousy, it won’t be displayed in such a mild way.

3. They Are Dismissive Towards You

This person will dismiss you constantly in order to be with their significant other. It is okay to be in love and your partner should be of importance, but if it this person always chooses to chase after a man/woman over spending time with you then reevaluate your friendship. Or better yet, they are not even committed to anyone. Instead they are chasing after penis/vagina and choose to put you on the backburner while doing so. They are expressing your level of importance to them.

4. They Need Something

This person only contacts you when they need something. I.E. “Hey girl I need you type my resume“or “Girl can I borrow your shoes?”, or “Hey man let me borrow your car”. You never hear from this person until they are in need of something that you possess. They do not contact you to see how you are doing or to generally be in your company. We call these people opportunists. More than likely they are keeping you around because of something that you possess that they do not. Once they find a way to possess that item themselves, your services will no longer be needed.

5. Liars

Trust will be null and void when dealing with them because you will never know how they truly feel about you or anything else for that matter. These people are chameleons and can morph themselves into whatever the situation requires. They also never have an original thought. They lie in order to portray a certain image that they feel will aide them in getting their desires. They are the ultimate manipulators of words.

6. The Overly Cynical Person

These people are dream killers and should be avoided by the ambitious. They will pick holes in your ideas, plans and thoughts. They are your very own personal downer. They have no faith in you and your abilities. People like this should be kept at a distance because secretly they do not think very highly of you. In fact they may consider you to be a simple minded fool and that is why they feel that you will never be successful. But they only seem to be that way with you. You never see them doubting or criticizing the plans of others. Something about you and your choices gets their panties/boxers in a bunch. This also may be part of the reason why they keep you around. They enjoy feeling like they are smarter than someone and have chosen you to be their exclusive town fool.

http://bitchielife.necolebitchie.com/2010/08/freind-or-foe-6-ways-to-distinguish-between-the-two/

new vid

2010-08-19T21:41:00.001-04:00

BUZZ AROUND TOWN

2010-08-18T22:00:00.001-04:00

SO ITS BEEN RUMORED THAT TARAJI & DRAKE HAVE BEEN SEEING EACH OTHER SINCE THE BET AWARDS.. AND APPARENTLY THEY WERE IN CANADA TOGETHER THIS WEEKEND.... INTERESTING..

NEWLYWEDS

2010-08-18T21:56:00.002-04:00

CHECK OUT TINY & T.I IN AXE LOUNGE THIS PAST WEEKEND IN THE HAMPTONS..

PEEP TINY'S SHOES.. BRIAN ATWOOD STUDDED PUMPS RETAIL VALUE $800

ONE WORD.. FIRE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

YUMMMMMMMMMMMM

2010-08-15T21:53:00.001-04:00

INTERESTING

2010-08-15T21:52:00.002-04:00

SO FANTASIA TRIED TO COMMIT SUICIDE? HMMMM THEN THIS SONG DROPS..

I DONT KNOW HOW I FEEL ABOUT EITHER ONE

TAKERS PREMIER

2010-08-15T21:47:00.002-04:00

..............

2010-08-04T22:15:00.001-04:00

STRESSSFUL = MY LIFE

M.O.B

2010-08-04T21:57:00.003-04:00

ANYONE WHO KNOWS ME.. KNOWS MARRIED TO THE MOB IS MY FAV T-SHIRT LINE EVER !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

<-HERE IS THE MOB DESIGNER Leah McSweeney AT THE 2010 MOB FALL COLLECTION PREVIEW LAST WEEK

A FEW MOB SHIRTS (INCASE YOU HAVENT SEEN )

<- PERSONAL FAV

LAST YEAR.. WIFEY TEYANA TAYLOR WAS THE 09 COLLECTION MODEL HERE ARE HER SHOTS

D.O.P.E

2010-08-04T21:55:00.000-04:00

FOR SOME REASON TO ME THIS IS ONE OF THE DOPEST PICS I HAVE SEEN IN A WHILE

HAD THIS SONG ON REPEAT THE PAST 10MINS.. LOL THOUGHT ID SHARE

2010-08-04T21:54:00.001-04:00

A Little Bit Remix (Ft. Drake) lyrics

Hands down Im too proud for love
but with eyes shut its you im thinkinq of
but how we move from A to B it cant be up to me
cuz you dont know who i was before you
and basically to see a change in me i'd be losinq
so i just iqnore you yeah ooooh
but your on my mind, my mind, my mind, my mind, my mind oohhh
and maybe in time,in time, in time i'll tell you ima

chorus
a litle bit, a little bit, a little bit in love with you
i guess that Ima little bit, a little bit, a little bit in love with you!

i know you told me break their hearts
but its you i wanna take apart
and i would never ever be the first to say it
but still i they know i-i,i,i

I would do it
push a button
pull a triqqer
climb a mountain
jump off a cliff cuz your my baby
i love you- love you just a little bit

I would do it
you would say it
you would mean it
we could do it
it was you and I, not only I,I

chorus
i think ima a little bit- little bit
a little bit in love with you
but only if you're a little bit- little bit
a little bit in la la la la love with me!

I hope they never find out
what they already know,know,know
as soon as its official we'll have to let it go,go,go
so we dont confirm the flinq
keep avoidinq all the questions
yu can teach me many things
im just scared to learn a lesson

Rap-
the pressures on both hearts beat like a metronome
both in sync like a justin song feels so right but its just soo wronq
i wonda what my world bout when niqqas that i know tryna take my qirl out
and her friends say i aint the one to go for
she just jeaouls cuz you always get approached more
oh well tell her fall back
caught up in some more shit tell her call back
tell her get a man that aint cheatinq on her ass with a girl that i know
yeah tell her all that- that
and as for you i think i know your the one
the closest ive come im privately a..

chorus
a little bit-a little bit- a little bit in love with you
i guess that im a little bit- a little bit
a little bit in love with you.

SPEAKIN OF BREEEZY

2010-08-04T21:48:00.001-04:00

HE GOT A NEW TAT THIS WEEEKEND

F.A.M.E (FORGIVING ALL MY ENEMIES )

= 0

2010-08-04T21:39:00.002-04:00

USHER SHOCKED HIS FANS WHEN HE BROUGHT BREEZY ON STAGE THIS PAST WEEKEND AT SUMFEST IN MONTEGO BAY, JAMAICA

YAY !! FINALLY ! KUDOS !! ALL OF THAT

2010-08-04T21:28:00.004-04:00

T.I. & TINY FINALLY TIED THE KNOT

< - THE HAPPY COUPLE

<- 1ST DANCE

<- DNT U JUS LOVE THEM

<- RECEPTION DRESS

<- CHILLIN IN V.I.P

<- BRIDESMAIDS

<- MONICA & TOYA

<- LIL DUVAL & RASHEEDA

<- TRINA B4 THE FESTIVITIES

<- CUTIES

<- JAMIE FOSTER BROWN, NELLY & ASHANTI

<- DIAMOND , KIM PORTER, RASHEEDA

<- LIL SCRAPPY & DIAMOND

THE MR & MRS.

2010-08-04T21:22:00.001-04:00

THESE 2 GOT MARRIED THIS WEEKEND

KUDOS !

AYE

2010-08-04T21:18:00.002-04:00

SOULJAH BY CELEBRATED HIS BIRTHDAY OVER THE WEEEKEND & HE HAD A FEW FAMILIAR FACES IN THE BUILDING

BLAH

2010-08-04T21:14:00.001-04:00

I HAVENT BEEEN ON IN FOREVER THIS I KNO.. BUT HEY I BEEN BUSY.. SO LET ME UP DATE YOU REAL QUICK

JADA

2010-08-04T18:54:00.002-04:00

JADA PINKETT IN A CUTE ENSEMBLE AS SHE HEADED TO JIMMY KIMMEL RECENTLY

THIS WOULD BE AN AMAZING DEBATE

2010-07-29T19:23:00.000-04:00

Why the Jumpoff May Have It Better Than Wifey
by T.S Johnson on Wednesday July 28th 2010

by TS Johnson

It seems like when it comes to famous men, their ladies and their jumpoffs – everyone acts like the jump offs are the problem. Somehow if he is your man then you’re the winner in the, “I Got Me a Baller,” sweepstakes. The reality of the situation is quite different. As far as I’m concerned, in the ongoing battle between The Wifey and The Jumpoff – the jump off is the winner, and here’s why:

1. I Have His Heart. Really? So what does having his heart mean exactly? He likes you a lot? He loves you? We know it doesn’t mean sexual fidelity. Does it mean he’ll be there for wifey if she’s sick? She’ll be there for him if he’s sick? What? Does it mean that it’s special when wifey gives him “head”? ’Cause let’s be real…she’s giving him head too. And here’s the thing…what makes wifey think he doesn’t like/love the jumpoff?

2. He Takes Care of Me. Okay…but to quote T.I. – It ain’t tricking if you got it. And anyone whose read any of Karrine Steffan’s books knows that ballers don’t mind dropping major cash on the other woman. So it doesn’t seem like wifey is getting a leg up on the jumpoff in this category either. Yes, if you’re married there are legal protections there (just look at what divorce is costing Tiger Woods)…but it doesn’t stop the jumpoff from getting broke off. And if she’s smart, any big ticket item she gets will be in her name. Legally the wife wouldn’t be able to touch said gifts if they ended up in divorce or upon his death. So you have Louis and she’s has Louis – seems like a draw to me. And if you’re just the girlfriend and not the wife…well…ask the Basketball Wives how well that’s worked out for them.

3. I”m the Mother of His Children. Ask Kim, P. Diddy’s ex, how well that’s worked out for her. Diddy’s jumpoff in Atlanta has his baby too and is getting fat checks as well. Nuff said.

4. Quality Time. So the wifey gets quality time? She goes on vacations and other expensive trips. Sure, but so does the jumpoff. Going back to the Jumpoff Bible…Steffans went on many an expensive trip and stayed in many an expensive hotel on somebody else’s man’s dime. My homeboy used to do marketing and PR for some of Miami’s top clubs and when D. Wade and Hoopz were dating he used to see them out and about….his wife was at home…pregnant…with his other son. And let’s not forget when T.I. was on the Mo’nique show Hoopz was sitting in the front row of the audience. Where was Tiny?

So I ask again: How is wifey the winner in all of this? The other woman is doing quite well. She’s getting money that could be spent on wifey and her kids. She’s getting time that could be spent with wifey and her kids. She’s getting sex that wifey could be getting.

And more often than not, the jumpoff doesn’t have to deal with him when he’s tired, sick, injured or what not. She gets all the good times while wifey gets everything else.

So really, what does wifey have that the jumpoff doesn’t have?

His heart?

Yeah.

Okay.

http://bitchielife.necolebitchie.com/2010/07/why-the-jumpoff-has-it-better-than-wifey/ <- HERE'S THE LINK

MY NEWEST ADDICTION

2010-07-29T09:18:00.002-04:00

SO IVE BEEN WATCHING PRETTY LITTLE LIARS. & I FOUND SOME SPOILERS..

There are many speculations as to who killed Ali in the teen series Pretty Little Liars. Add your thoughts below:

The Pretty Little Liars never knew that Ali actually had a twin named Courtney, who was insane. One day, Courtney managed to switch places with Ali. The Ali that all the girls knew was really Courtney! When the real Ali finally came back, she killed Courtney.

YES! Courtney is really the dead one, not A(Ali)

Ali never died. She has a twin sister named Courtney, who is sick in the head, who pretends to be Ali all along, while Ali is away at a mental home. Courtney becomes "friends" with the four girls and learns about all of their secrets and keeps it in a diary. When Courtney(Ali) is supposed to be coming back from the home to visit her family, the real Ali murders her sister in revenge.

Okay, in the last book in the series, Wanted, you learn that Alison DiLaurentis had a twin sister named Courtney DiLaurentis, who didn't live with the family due to mental issues. The twins are identical. Later on you find out that Courtney always pretended to be Alison, causing much confusion amongst the DiLaurentis family. The night that "Alison" disappeared, it was really Courtney in Spencer Hasting's barn, not Alison like the girls thought. Alison despised Courtney because back awhile ago, Courtney dumped Alison's popular friend Naomi, and traded her for 4 new "losers," who just so happened to be Hanna, Spencer, Aria, and Emily. Many of the girls adventures with whom they thought they shared with Alison, were actually with Courtney who pretended to be Alison. In the end you discover that the actual Ali killed Courtney for throwing away her perfect life. The body that was discovered in Maya's backyard was Courtney DiLaurentis. Ali is still alive, but after Mona Vanderwaal dies, Ali takes on the role of "A." So in conclusion, Alison is the killer, and she killed her twin sister, Courtney out of fury and revenge.
Alison is the killer.

do you really want to know? i thought it was mellisa- spencers sister up until book 6- killer

SPOILER FOR BOOK 6: In book 6 killer, the author leads you on to thinking it Jason (Ally's older bro) and officer Wildon, the four girls gets hints from Ian- who turns out isn't dead! obtw the new A is a lot nicer to the 4 liars :P
Then at the very end of the last chapter in the book officer Wildon- I think sets Spencer's barn on fire, when Spencer, Emily, and Hannah are inside, Aria is outside of the barn. Aria then sees someone ( can't see their face ) trapped with a log on top of them un able to move. aria moves the log and sets them free, and helps them get away from the fire. all thee girls that were in the barn get out okay, and all 5 of them meet up, and aria explains what happened with this random person who was stuck, and they take the hood off that was up, and wipe off the soot and dirt from this persons face, and guess who it is....

and of the 4 girls recognize this person, but they don't recognize all four of them....it was ALLY! idk how but shes not dead, they say in the books that there was a hole in the DNA testing and they never figured out if it acutally was ally that "died" , but i guess it wasnt!

Okay, in the last book in the series, Wanted, you learn that Alison DiLaurentis had a twin sister named Courtney DiLaurentis, who didn't live with the family due to mental issues. The twins are identical. Later on you find out that Courtney always pretended to be Alison, causing much confusion amongst the DiLaurentis family. The night that "Alison" disappeared, it was really Courtney in Spencer Hasting's barn, not Alison like the girls thought. Alison despised Courtney because back awhile ago, Courtney dumped Alison's popular friend Naomi, and traded her for 4 new "losers," who just so happened to be Hanna, Spencer, Aria, and Emily. Many of the girls adventures with whom they thought they shared with Alison, were actually with Courtney who pretended to be Alison. In the end you discover that the actual Ali killed Courtney for throwing away her perfect life. The body that was discovered in Maya's backyard was Courtney DiLaurentis. Ali is still alive, but after Mona Vanderwaal dies, Ali takes on the role of "A." So in conclusion, Alison is the killer, and she killed her twin sister, Courtney out of fury and revenge.

No one. Ali isn't dead.

Ali killed Ali. They may not currently make sense but it will eventually. ali wasnt ali it was courtney her twin sister ali killed courtney
Alison DeLaurentis had a twin sister named Courtney, although none of the Pretty Little Liars knew it. They traded places and names, so Aria, Hanna, Spencer and Emily befriended Courtney under the name Ali. The REAL Alison killed her sister Courtney, but since the Liars didn't know there was a twin, they thought Ali was dead. The truth is that the Alison that THEY knew was dead, although the real one was alive. So Alison's killer is.... herself. "A" is Mona, Hanna's wannabe follower. When Mona dies at homecoming (population change, anyone?) Alison takes her place sending messages to the Liars. Ali knew everything about Aria, Hanna, Emily and Spencer because Courtney told her everything.

http://wiki.answers.com/Q/Who_killed_Ali_in_the_series_Pretty_Little_Liars

quick vids

2010-07-23T22:09:00.001-04:00

<- rappper round up

<- love this song

<- dent really mess with nicki but i like this song

QUOTABLES

2010-07-20T08:29:00.003-04:00

"You must be the change you wish to see in the world" ~Ghandi.

"That government is best which governs the least" - Thomas Jefferson

Rick Ross credits his work ethic and creativity to his success in the music biz. He told AllHipHop.com, “It’s just about being creative, being flyer than you were yesterday. I wake up and try to do that. You got to switch the color of the stones up sometimes, go to new heights, you got to go above and beyond the lames…it makes for great television."

"I don't want to make money. I just want to be wonderful. " -MARILYN MONROE

"A girl should be two things: classy and fabulous" - COCO CHANEL

"I love people who make me laugh. I honestly think it's the thing I like most, to laugh. It cures a multitude of ills. It's probably the most important thing in a person." -Audrey Hepburn

"I'm trying to find myself as a person, sometimes that's not easy to do. Millions of people live their entire lives without finding themselves. But it is something I must do. The best way for me to find myself as a person is to prove to myself that I am an actress" - MARILYN MONROE

"I never think of myself as an icon. What is in other people's minds is not in my mind. I just do my thing." -Audrey Hepburn

"Everyone's just laughing at me. I hate it. Big breasts, big ass, big deal, Can't I be anything else ? Gee, how long can you be sexy? " - MARILYN MONROE

"I've been on a calendar, but never on time. " - MARILYN MONROE

"Men who think that a woman's past love affairs lessen her love for them are usually stupid and weak. A woman can bring a new love to each man she loves, providing there are not too many. " - MARILYN MONROE

SITTIN THE CAR.... TALKIN FOR HOURS

2010-07-16T01:08:00.001-04:00

MEMORIES... SO MANY OF THEM.. SOME HAPPY... SOME NOT SO HAPPY... I LOVE YOU .. THE END

LATE NIGHT

2010-07-16T01:03:00.003-04:00

SO WHAT AM I SUPPOSED TO DO? JUS BE UNDERSTANDING? UNDERSTAND OF WHAT.. THAT ISH LIKE THIS HAS HAPPENED MY WHOLE LIFE... IT REALLY GETS OLD AFTER A WHILE.. TO ADMIT A FAULT IS TO ACKNOWLEDGE & HOPEFULLY IMPROVE ON IT... BUT WHAT HAPPENS WHEN THERE IS NO IMPROVEMENT?

I WONDER WHEN THAT DAY WILL COME.

2010-07-16T01:01:00.002-04:00

FOR ONCE.. I WANNA KNO THAT IM ENOUGH.. THAT NO OUTSIDE ATTENTION IS NEEDED... SMH

HMM

2010-07-16T00:51:00.002-04:00

NOT REALLY SLEEPY SO I FIGURE I WOULD BLOG..

STRESS HAS BEEN ONE OF THE ONLY CONSISTENT THINGS IN MY LIFE LATELY, BUT YET I STILL WEAR A SMILE, BECAUSE I AM TRULY BLESSED.

BUT HONESTLY SOMETIMES ITS HARD TO TRY AND SEE THE OTHER SIDE OF THE HILL. IM HUMAN AND IT HAPPENS. ONE DAY IN CHURCH, MY PASTOR SAID.. ONCE YOU START DOING THE RIGHT THINGS, THINGS WILL BECOME HARDER.. THESE ARE YOUR TEST.. THE MORE RIGHT YOU DO.. THE MORE CHALLENGING YOUR TEST. I FEEL LIKE THATS WHERE I AM IN LIFE.. IM BEING TESTED,... & I KNO HE WONT PUT MOR EON ME THAN I CAN BEAR BUT SHEESH.. LOL

BUT NEVERTHELESS IM GONNA CONTINUE TO STAY HUMBLE & DO WHAT I KNO IS RIGHT & TRUE TO MY HEART.

TO THOSE WHO FEEL THE SAME I DO .. STAY STRONG YOUR BREAKTHROUGH IS AROUND THE CORNER..

AN OLD FRIEND

2010-07-16T00:47:00.001-04:00

I GRADUATED WITH RICCO, & HE REMADE UNTHINKABLE & I LOVE IT ! SUPPORT THE HOMIE

WHAT WOULD YOU DO

2010-07-15T23:12:00.002-04:00

I LOGGED ON TO CHECK MY EMAIL & I CAME ACROSS THIS VIDEO & ITS AMAZING.... AND ITS PERFECT FOR RIGHT NOW

2010-07-13T13:12:00.001-04:00

WHATS UNDERSTOOD NEEDS NO EXPLANATION

How Well Do You Know Your Partner?

2010-07-13T09:19:00.000-04:00

http://www.oprah.com/relationships/How-Well-Do-You-Know-Your-Partner_1

How Normal Is Your Relationship?

2010-07-13T09:18:00.000-04:00

TAKE THIS

http://www.oprah.com/relationships/How-Normal-Is-Your-Relationship

5 Best Things to Do for Your Relationship

2010-07-13T09:13:00.000-04:00

I FOUND THIS ARTICLE ON OPRAH.COM AND I FOUND IT INTERESTING.

1: "Stop all shame, blame, and criticism. Instead ask for what you want in a clear, specific, and positive manner, and express appreciation for your partner. To elaborate: Men need to feel competent—that they make a contribution and that it is noticed. They like to be told what 'behavior' makes you happy. Since men tend to express affection by doing things, you should interpret their actions as love. When men know what to do and are acknowledged for it, they tend to keep doing it." — Harville Hendrix, PhD, author of Getting the Love You Want

2: "Change from a critical habit of mind, in which you're very involved with your partner's mistakes, to a positive one, in which you catch him doing something right. Notice one small thing, and express genuine appreciation. That will change your interaction patterns from escalating negativity and criticism to building a culture of appreciation." — John M. Gottman, PhD, author of The Relationship Cure: A 5 Step Guide to Strengthening Your Marriage, Family, and Friendships

3: "When your relationship starts to break down, you need AAA: an Apology, Affection, and a promise of Action. You say you're sorry for what you've said or done to hurt or disappoint your partner. You immediately offer a hug, a kiss—some meaningful gesture of warmth. You pledge to do something that matters to your partner ('From now on, I will…'). And, of course, you stick to that. This whole AAA thing can take two minutes, but in that time you've healed the past, built a bridge to the present, and created hope for your future." — Mira Kirshenbaum, psychotherapist and author of The Weekend Marriage

4: "With books on the market like How to Make Love Like a Porn Star, one of the greatest services you can do for a guy is to reassure him that he doesn't have to make love like a porn star. You can show him how to have sex like a woman: creative, sensual, non-genital-based, and more pleasure- than orgasm-focused. Lead him to an experience that goes beyond his penis and makes him fully engaged—mind, body, and soul." — Ian Kerner, PhD, author of She Comes First

5: "All relationships grow a bit stale as time goes by, and the longer-lasting they are, the staler they can get. The best thing you can do is pump in some fresh air. A long weekend in a romantic hideaway would be ideal, but even a few hours in a motel helps. Don't tell anyone where you are, turn off your cell phones, and unplug the TV. When you get home, you'll find your relationship has acquired ruddy cheeks." — Dr. Ruth Westheimer, psychosexual therapist and author of 52 Lessons on Communicating Love

HERE IS THE LINK
http://www.oprah.com/relationships/5-Best-Things-to-Do-for-Your-Relationship

KUDOS TO MELO & LALA

2010-07-12T23:35:00.000-04:00

I THINK IM BIG MEEECH

2010-07-12T23:31:00.002-04:00

IF U BEEN AROUND ME IN THE LAST 2 WEEKS U KNO THIS IS MY JAM !!!

LOVE WHEN THESE 2 WORK TOGETHER

LOCAL TALENT

2010-07-12T23:31:00.001-04:00

SMH.. LOL

2010-07-12T23:30:00.001-04:00

I TRY NOT TO POST B.S. BUT THIS VID HAD ME DYING !!

JUS IGNORE HER TRYNNA BE CUTE... PAY ATTENTION AROUND TH 17SECOND MARK..

RULE # 1

2010-07-10T11:04:00.000-04:00

DONT DATE PEOPLE OUT OF UR LEAGUE

2010-07-09T00:04:00.001-04:00

TIRED OF WAITING......

LOL HAD TO PUBLISH THIS

2010-07-08T23:46:00.001-04:00

LOVE THIS SONG

2010-07-08T23:45:00.003-04:00

RON ARTEST ON CHELSEA LATELY

2010-07-08T23:45:00.001-04:00